Read 1 Corinthians 7
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The Corinthians were confused about Paul’s teaching on marriage. Some had taken his recommendation of celibacy as an apostolic ruling and refrained from sex or even divorced their mates. Paul here deals with a number of complex issues. First, he teaches that sex within marriage is not only good, but essential (7:1–6). He thinks it better if the unmarried remain unmarried, but tells those with strong sexual drives marriage is best for them (vv. 7–8). The married are to stay married (vv. 9–11), but if a non-believing spouse refuses to live with a believer, the believer is “not bound” (vv. 12–16). A general principle in the Christian life is to “retain the place in life” God has assigned. The principle applies to one’s married state as well (vv. 17–28). There are advantages in remaining unmarried (vv. 29–35), but it is not wrong to marry if a person feels he or she ought to, whether one be a virgin or widow (7:36–40).
Discussion question
What do you think was going on with Paul that he thought that it is good for a person to not be married? Do you agree or disagree with him?
Reflection question
In what areas of your life do you need more self-control
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I have always believed that Paul's attitude toward marriage came from more than theory. He may have had a relationship that didn't work out. It's just a guess. I personally believe that marriage is a good thing, as long as it is between two people who are willing to make the necessary effort to keep harmony and positivity in the relationship. Sometimes you have to consider: Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? (Dr. Phil)
ReplyDeletePaul was on a mission for God and I think he felt that marriage was a distraction and primarily good for avoiding sexual sin if you could not practice abstinence. While there is truth to that I think there are many more positives related to marriage that are addressed in other places in the bible Paul did not reference. Focusing on these specific verses brings value but it is good to consider the whole bible to keep perspective.
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